Joan and John de Regt with Carver Chief Advancement Officer, Kailee Scales
Every December, something extraordinary happens at the Carver Community Center. What begins as a gymnasium or multipurpose room transforms into a holiday wonderland—bursting with color, joy, and the unmistakable feeling of being cared for. The Carver Holiday Party is one of our most heartwarming traditions, not because of any single moment, but because of the hundreds of generous acts that make it possible.
This year’s celebration, taking place on Friday, December 12th, is made possible by a community of volunteers and partners who bring the spirit of the season to life for Carver kids and their families. Today, longtime Carver volunteers and champions Joan and John de Regt delivered a mountain of new donated gifts to the Carver Community Center—bright packages that volunteers will wrap and that children in our community will soon unwrap. Their delivery is just one part of a beautiful tapestry of giving.
For more than a decade, the 11th-grade class at St. Luke’s School has been at the heart of this celebration. Each year, these students arrive ready to spread joy—with Santa himself in tow—leading games, dancing with kids, helping with crafts, serving snacks, and, most importantly, handing out gifts with genuine warmth and enthusiasm. Their presence brings a magical energy that children look forward to all year long.
Behind the scenes, volunteers help sort and wrap hundreds of gifts to ensure that every child aged 13 and younger receives something special. These gifts represent the collective kindness of neighbors across Norwalk and Rowayton, including a treasured annual effort that has shaped this tradition for years: the Mike Barbis Santa Toy Drive.
Co-founded by Joan DeRegt and named in honor of the late Mike Barbis—Rowayton’s former commissioner and a beloved advocate for Carver—the Santa Toy Drive continues to shine as one of the most meaningful acts of community generosity during the holidays. In partnership with the Rowayton Civic Association, the Rowayton Fire Department gathers an abundance of toys, books, sports equipment, and gift cards each year. Their drive ensures that not only the Carver Holiday Party, but several additional holiday events, are filled with gifts and good cheer.
Today’s delivery from Joan and John de Regt is a reminder of the power of this beloved tradition. The gifts they brought reflect more than holiday fun—they symbolize generosity, connection, and a community united in love for its children.
As we prepare for Friday’s celebration, we extend our deepest gratitude to everyone who contributes to this magical season. Whether you donated a toy, wrapped a gift, volunteered your time, or helped share the joy, you are part of what makes this holiday party—and this community—shine.
Thank you, Rowayton. Thank you, St. Luke’s School. Thank you to every volunteer and donor who keeps the spirit of giving alive—not just during the holidays, but all year long. The magic you create will stay in the hearts of Carver children for years to come.